The Breaker Beat

Hiphop and Women (in that order)

Earlier this week I was chatting with a friend of mine and we were discussing our current obstacles of life. Mostly music, breaking, dating… Dating??! Being a single girl I am always game for  discussion on current methods of dating in hopes of finding common grounds and some sort of insight for my own benefit and hopefully the benefit of anyone I ever date.

I went to to explain to my friend (lets call him Rob) that dating is high on my priority list, but I def think about the opposite sex often. But it seems whenever I gain admiration from a potential partner in crime I get the,”Gee you hang out with a lot of guys” line. To which my response is usually something like,”No duh”  and I try to politely explain that currently Hiphop is a male dominated culture and I support change and evolution in that. Apparently some men just dont like to hear that. Oh well, I love to dance and I do what I love, I consider myself lucky, that right now to get do what I love around an abundance of guys…(whom I also love)

After explaining this to Rob, he felt the almost the same way, he loves his music, and takes pride in it, and like me he doesnt put a lot of emphasis on actual dating but he loves women. He also happens to be very charming and quite attractive, so I was pleasantly surprised he was available. Rob told me that he loved and respected women as much as he does his music. Which poses the question why is it so hard to find a date?? And as simple as Rob’s words were they totally resonate with me(and most likely many others) “All I think about is hip hop and women, …in that order.”

Don’t we all??   )

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